Opinion
It's normal in Nigeria for
you to organise a party and some of your guests sleep over. There is nothing
wrong with that. If you don't want to lodge them in one of the best hotels in
Lagos, they have to sleep in your home. But what if your guest takes advantage
of your magnanimity and extends their stay? This can be very discomforting
because you would be in a dilemma on how to get rid your guest who has
overstayed their welcome. In addition, you don't want to annoy them and still stay
friends even after getting rid of them. So, if you don't know what to do, Jumia
Travel, shares smart ways to get rid of guests who have overstayed their
welcome.
Make
time part of the invitation
They say prevention is
better than cure. This mantra can also apply here. If you don't want a guest to
overstay, you should state it clearly the time the party is going to start and
end. This will prevent any friend from thinking of staying. But this may not
apply to family relatives. But it's not a bad idea to include it in the
invitation card.
Give
them chores
Like Chinua Achebe said in
his book that if a guest has stayed more than 3 days in your home, give him a
hoe to farm. This is because he's no long a guest. So, if you want to get rid
of that guest, you can subtly give them chores. They won't be happy with this
and before you know they are on their way to their home.
Fake
having to travel
This is quite drastic but
it will definitely work. But you have to do this in agreement with your spouse.
You can inform the guest a night before that you are traveling and you can't
leave them. They have no choice than to leave.
Make
the home boring
There is a level of
boredom that will be unbearable for any unwelcomed guests. You may decide not
to switch on the generator in the night and not subscribe to your pay TV when
it's subscription expires. In fact, you can even refuse to play music or watch
music. This should send a signal to the guest that he has to leave.
Tell
them directly
This is probably the best
option for you but the most difficult. You have to just summon the courage and
tell them that it's time for them to leave.
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